
So... I've mentioned that I've been
struggling a bit lately. I've been dealing with some stress, I didn't have
internet for a few weeks and couldn't blog or use my Fitday account to log my calories, and I kind of slacked off with the healthy eating.
And my husband noticed. He noticed last Wednesday... when I was sitting on the recliner eating my second donut of the day. He didn't say much, but what he did say was quite profound.
Husband: You better be careful. You don't want to LOSE all that you've GAINED.
Me: What??? You mean I don't want to GAIN back all the weight that I've LOST.
Husband: Nooooooo. I mean you don't want to LOSE all that you've GAINED.Holy Shnikies, Batman! Am I married to the wisest man on the face of the earth or what??? Ummm... probably not... hehe... but he's GOT to be in the top 10%!
Honestly... when he repeated what he first told me... and I allowed it to register in my brain EXACTLY what he was saying... I was dumbfounded.
Why hadn't I ever thought of that??? This weight loss journey is NOT just about losing! It is about gaining as well! It's about
gaining a new and improved body and life! It's about
gaining health and mobility! It's about
gaining self-esteem and confidence! The list could go on and on and on!
This past week, I've really pondered what my husband told me. And here are just a few of the things that I have GAINED while LOSING weight these past few months:
1. It's easier to get in and out of the shower and perform household chores.
2. My body doesn't ache when I get up in the morning.
3. I can buckle the seat belt in the car now.
4. I fit into some of my smaller clothing.
5. I actually enjoy going out to eat every now and then.
6. I get out of the house more in general.
7. I'm gaining self-discipline.
8. My feet don't swell anymore.
9. It's easier to walk up steps.
10. I have more energy.
You know what? My husband was right.
I do NOT want to LOSE what I have GAINED!I have GAINED so much already... and I know that I will GAIN even more as I continue to LOSE weight. And so will you! So... let's stop focusing so much on what the scale says we're LOSING... and let's start focusing on what we know we're GAINING!
How much have you GAINED lately?